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Is There a Problem with Men?

This is a response to "Is There a Problem with Porn?"

I would change it’s title to be, “Is There a Problem with Men?” Because her site is specifically targetting men’s “old brain.”

She’s talking about TheProblemOfMaleSexuality, albeit indirectly.

Here are my responses to her main points.

"Porn is not reality."

Porn does reflect reality: the reality of what is in men’s hearts, their sexual nature.

Not females, but KeKales.

Fantasies, color, imagination, life, vitality.

Porn helps men connect with themselves (see: SexAndSpiritInMen) and though we’re sexually invisible, we’re certainly real.

Would she get rid of romance novels, as well? Romance novels are not about real males, they’re about Kales.

(Personally, I would get rid of neither.)

We could start with PrideAndPrejudice?, which is also, not reality.

(But which is also, extremely important, and worthy of study.)

Incidentally, I highly recommend that all men read at least 3 women’s romance novels, cover to cover, at least once a decade.

Which brings us to our next point.

"Porn is not educational."

…Unless you believe in KnowThyself.

Porn is incredibly educational.

Every man should make a study of his sexuality, and that definitely includes knowing what turns him on, what turns him off, why, and how.

Not just himself, but read porn written for other people, as well – different kinks, different sexualities, different natures, different interests, different cultures, different backgrounds. Read all of it. Study.

Pictures, videos, games, and stories.

“What’s ethical?” and “What turns me (and others) on?” are two very important, and very separate questions. They should inform one another, not obliterate one another.

Porn is not only a enlightening key for understanding sexuality; it can be perhaps the most enlightening key, because people will write and say things in porn that they will not (and can not) write or say anywhere else. (Not even in scientific journals.)

You won’t see how “real relationships” work, of course. You’ll need to check with your friends, parents, relatives, and strangers to learn how things work out.

“Real relationships,” incidentally, don’t work just one way. There’s a great variety of ways that they work.

To find a way that works, you’ll need to learn about yourself. You’ll need porn to help you with that. I suppose you could try to figure out all these things on your own, but it’d take far, far longer.

Porn has been one of the most educational sources in my life, that education has stretched over 2 decades, and it continues to this day.

Study porn. Study reality. Learn.

Next point.

"Porn is like junk food."

There’s a good point here.

Too much wanking, like too many Cheetos, leaves that foul, “Gee, I just wanked too much” feeling. “Need protein… …bad.”

: insert frame from “The Guy I Almost Was” by PatrickFarley here

Not a good thing!

But it doesn’t transform into her conclusions: “Stay away from porn, reprogram yourself, shun people who look at porn,” yadda yadda yadda.

“Porn is like junk food” also casts to “your sexual imagination is junk.” See what’s right in what she’s saying, but don’t let it go too far.

"Porn is powerful."

You bet a man’s sexuality is powerful. (see: SexAndSpiritInMen)

In fact, a man no less than NapoleonHill? thought it was at the source of his power.

Porn opens a man’s doors to his sexuality, and clarifies it to him. It helps him to sharpen his self-understanding.

If a boy can’t find porn, he will invent it, out of anything. Catalogs will be scoured for the smallest image of a woman. Freeze framing video games with pictures of cartoon women in them. Anything. And all before (and long before) a boy has even experienced his first orgasm. Sex takes over our brains way before we even know how to masturbate.

My basic idea is summed up as: “PornIsSanity.”

Every man needs porn, and it can help him step inside his sexuality, his sexual imagination.

Granted, “it’s not all pretty in there,” but just because being “pretty” isn’t generally a masculine virtue, it doesn’t mean that it’s not an essential part of his power.

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